Monday, June 5, 2017

Soulmate Attraction: 10 Things to Do While Not Casually "Dating"

 Things to do while NOT casually "dating"...

​by Cassendre Xavier​

1) Write: Letters to friends, Inspirational posts on social media, Journal/diary, Blog.

2) Do art work/be creative/crafty.

3) Exercise.

4) Sleep.

5) Spend time with friends and family.

6) Watch funny movies/TV/YouTube and/or go to comedy shows to LAUGH A LOT!

7) Talk to (or watch on YouTube) happy couples/triads, etc., and ask them how they met each other (keyword search "How we met")!

8) Find/buy/read/watch/listen to inspiring soulmate attraction stuff (keyword search "CassEndrE Xavier soulmate attraction Arielle Ford secret").

9) Find and register for soulmate attraction workshops/classes (hint! hint!)

10) Visualize the kind of mate you are doing all this hard work to attract!

Cassendre Xavier has been writing the "Soulmate Attraction for the Rest of Us" series at Wisdom Magazine's online edition since 2011. She is the author of the forthcoming book Soulmate Attraction for the Rest of Us: Dating & Relationships for the Poly, Recovering, Survivor & Tantric, and has presented her workshop of the same title at Sisterspace Weekend in Darlington, Maryland (September 2014) and the 10th  & 11th Annual Poly Living Conference in Philadelphia (February 2015 & 2016, respectively). Cassendre was diagnosed with Bipolar 2 Disorder and Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) at age 23. She has been a member of Philadelphia's LGBT, polyamorous, and New Age/ancient wisdom spiritual communities since 1991, and from 1996-1999 facilitated Sisters Healing Together, a peer support group for women survivors of incest with a special focus on compulsive overeating, which she also founded, at the William Way LGBT Community Center in Philadelphia. Under her self-assigned spiritual name Amethyste Rah, Cassendre released the popular Affirmations for Survivors guided meditation audio series ("Self-Love" and "Spirituality" in 2007, and "Sexuality" and "Life Skills" are forthcoming).


UPCOMING SOULMATE ATTRACTION WORKSHOP WITH CASSENDRE, Monday Sept. 18th, 2017, 6:30pm-8:30pm in Philadelphia $20 admission. Info:

See Cassendre's "Soulmate Attraction for the Rest of Us" series at Wisdom Magazine's online edition:

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